Living Generously
Hello Beauties!
As I have gone about my day-to-day life these past few weeks, I have noticed an increasing flow and power in my internal landscape coming from the incredible energy of living generously. Now, when I talk about generosity, I’m not simply referring to the concept of giving away material things; I’m speaking about a vibrant, life-affirming mindset that is currently elevating my personal and spiritual growth in a major way. My practice has been in being generous with my thoughts, perceptions, and interpretations of daily interactions and experiences, as well as with the thoughts and acts I allow just for me.
For me, this generosity practice has been rooted in a few areas, not the least of which is self-compassion. When I take the time to be intentional and treat myself with kindness and understanding, I create a solid foundation from which I can extend that same love and acceptance to others. I’ve found that dedicating time to self-care—whether through quiet reflection, nurturing hobbies, or simply savoring a moment in the company of my family and friends—allows me to fill my own cup. This inner fullness makes it so much easier for me to give my energy freely, without feeling depleted or resentful. I am so inspired by how powerful it has been for me to approach others from this grounded place, radiating warmth and positivity!
As I work in this practice, I realize how far beyond giving material gifts that generosity extends; it can be about sharing my time, attention, and energy, AND it can be about sharing those things from a place of love and kindness. Whether it’s connecting with and actively listening to a friend or making eye contact and smiling at a stranger as we pass, these acts of kindness cultivate a deeper sense of connection. Each time I reach out, I’m reminded of the shared humanity that connects every single one of us and the beauty of our ability to commune with one another.
Generosity also opens me up to vulnerability, which is so important for personal and spiritual development. By allowing myself to be seen and to share my experiences—both the joyful and the challenging—I create space for deeper and more authentic relationships. Just yesterday I softened myself greatly during a challenging conversation with my husband about a strained area in my personal life that he was probing into. While it was at first quite uncomfortable to do so, I found the sweetest feeling of love and support from him when I allowed myself to soften and be vulnerable in that moment. Generally, I’ve learned that when I share my journey, I encourage others to do the same. And, in that moment I could feel him also soften and share his feelings more completely than he previously had around this fraught topic. It brought us closer while also allowing me to heal more deeply in an area where I have been carrying deep hurt and holding low-frequency energy.
Another beautiful benefit I have found in practicing generosity, is a profound and growing wellspring of gratitude within me that transforms my perspective on life. Author and beautiful soul Wayne Dyer talks about how relationships exist solely in our thoughts, therefore giving us ultimate power to dictate how every relationship—lifelong or brief and transactional—feels to us and exists in our life. This idea has given me so much inspiration around perspective and the “view” I choose to take of my life and those I live it with. The choice and action of allowing my energy to flow generously serves as a powerful reminder of the abundance that surrounds me, illuminating the blessings I often take for granted—the gentle warmth of the sun on my skin, the joyous sound of my loved ones laughing, and the countless opportunities for learning and growth that life presents. This deepened sense of gratitude not only enriches my spirit but also acts as a catalyst for elevating my energetic vibration.
I have found that as I become more attuned to the beauty of everyday life, I forge a stronger connection with the source energy that connects me with everything else that exists. This recognition allows divine love and compassion to flow through me with ease. In this space, my capacity to give expands, fostering a cycle of generosity that alleviates my own personal suffering and nurtures a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment. Through this practice, I find that even thinking the word generous while I am driving or walking through a crowded space can shift my nervous system down into a calm flow that allows me to fully accept all others in those spaces without judgement, anger, or perceived personal slights. I find myself smiling at those around me and seeing them as human compatriots rather than oppositional forces that are out to make my life harder, or take resources meant for me, or hurt me … the list of negatives I could perceive from others could go on and on.
The main thing I hope to share with this writing is how miraculously and quickly I have found living generously has aligned my thoughts and actions with my values. It’s a way to express my deeper beliefs about interconnectedness and compassion without having to work to convince others or overintellectualize the concept in my head. Each time I choose to act from a place of generosity, I reinforce my commitment to fostering love and understanding within myself and my close community in a way that contributes to a larger tapestry of kindness, creating ripples of positivity that extend out from my being and impact the whole.
It is from this energy of generosity that I write this and hope that it touches all who read it with warm kindness. I remind myself multiple times a day that my soul is here for a purpose and I can choose how much my humanness supports or hinders that purpose. My thoughts are mine to shape and control, so why not let them flow with generosity. For it is truer to me now more than ever that - as I think, so shall I be. May you think from your highest mind, love from your highest heart, and vibrate from your highest energetic frequency as you make your way through your everyday life. Remember that the world is smaller than we think it is, and that, just like ripples across the top of still water, the most local of good works will eventually ripple out to touch everything that exists. Be the change you want to see in the world, my sweet friends.
In infinite generosity,
Chelsea