Nurturing Your Divine Feminine: Breaking Free from Scarcity

Hello, darling! Ok, so, I feel called to talk about something that has been on my mind a lot recently, and that is: shifting away from a scarcity mindset by embracing and loving our authentic selves.

You know how it feels when you're stuck in a cycle of fear, anxiety, and competition? To so often feel: tightness in your body and mind; limited and stuck; judged and/or judgemental; lonely, isolated, and misunderstood. It totally sucks, right? But here's the thing – we have the power to break free from that way of thinking and cultivate a deeper connection with ourselves. It’s magical!

So, what is this scarcity mindset all about? It's that constant feeling that there's not enough to go around - not enough time, resources, or love. It's like we're constantly striving for more, but never really feeling satisfied. Sound familiar?

Here's the good news: we can shift our focus away from scarcity and towards self-love and empowerment. It starts with nurturing a loving relationship with ourselves. We are taught from such a young age to look to others to: be responsible for us; be our identity; and fill us with love. How freeing to realize that the love and support of others is EXTRA to what we can generate ourselves! It is actually beautifully easy to fill our own cups by just loving ourselves, just as we are. 

*I will note here that by easy I mean completely doable and within all of our reach, not that it does not take work. This is a practice. A lovely practice, that-when implemented often in one’s life-can quickly and simply change your life for the better.*

Here are some steps you can take right away to start your own journey of self-love and filling your own energetic cup:

Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Don't beat yourself up over mistakes or perceived flaws. You're doing the best you can, and that's something to celebrate.

Reflect and Release: Take time to reflect on your thoughts and feelings. What's holding you back? What beliefs are no longer serving you? What’s attracting you and turning you on? Let go of what's no longer needed, and make space for what lights you up and truly matters to you.

Set Boundaries: Protect your energy, precious one. Learn to say no to things that drain you and yes to what nourishes you deeply.

Celebrate Your Uniqueness: Embrace what makes you YOU! You are enough, just as you are.

Now, let's talk about connecting with our divine feminine. This is where things get really juicy! Our divine feminine is all about intuition, creativity, and nurturing. It's about trusting our inner wisdom and expressing ourselves authentically.

Here are some ways to connect with your divine feminine:

Listen to Your Intuition: Trust your gut! Your intuition is guiding you towards what's best for you.

Get Creative: Express yourself through art, writing, movement, or whatever feels most authentic to you. *I find a lot of creative flow in cooking. Or even in coloring with my son!

Surround Yourself with Love: Connect with like-minded women who uplift and support you. 

So, what's the takeaway? Breaking free from a scarcity mindset and embracing ourselves, and our divine feminine, is a journey, not a destination. It takes time, patience, and practice, but the expansive, generous, abundant woman you’ll become is SO worth it.

Remember, you are inherently worthy of love, joy, connection, and all that life has to offer. By embracing your divine feminine, you can break free from limitations and step into your true power.